So, you're single and want to meet someone, huh? Then you've come to the right place! It's no surprise to us that there's an amazing number of men out there who love BBW's, but you need a method to hook up with them and a plan to find the right one.

    Online dating or singles sites can be an incredible source of finding other like-minded singles who may be looking for someone just like you. Our favorite BBW specialty site is BBWfinder.com. We strongly recommend you start your search there. Another site you should join is American Singles. Join both and you're bound to have a great time. And both offer FREE MEMBERSHIPS, so you've got nothing to lose! Go for it and have fun! And for some additional spice you've got to sign up at Adult Friend Finder.

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    The first thing you need to decide on is what characteristics of a mate or date are most important to you. Remember the old saying, "be careful what you ask for, you just might get it." So know what you want BEFORE you start your search. You'll be much more likely to find your perfect match.

    Sit down and make a list of what you want and don't want in a mate. What habits, interests, goals, etc. matter to you. Being prepared will help you write your profile so you get the best results.

    Finished? Okay, Let's plan out how to present your personal ad.

    For best results we recommend the following:

• Pictures: Several good quality head and full body shots always get substantially more responses than text only ads.
• Headline: Use a headline that sounds attractive and real.
• Honesty: Be honest about who you are and what you want.
• Completeness: Say as much as you need to in order to make your point. Being vague tends to work against finding quality matches.
• Language: Always use appropriate language and grammar. Every word carries an impact when someone is sizing you up by a profile.
• Spelling:People who misspell words, especially words such as "intelligent" or "educated" tend to be ignored quickly. And you'd be amazed at how many people call themselves a "women" instead of a "woman." Unless you're more than one person you're a "woman." ;-) And finally, there is no "m" in "voluptuous." LOL
• Geographic preference: Be clear if you have one. No one wants to start up a conversation only to find out they live too far away from you.

    Okay, we've all heard horror stories about people meeting via the internet, so let's talk about safety. Here are some basic rules to help you avoid the majority of dangerous situations:

• Name: NEVER put your full name in your ad or in a message to another member. You can tell them your last name AFTER you've met and feel comfortable with them.
• Address: The same as above.
• Email address: Don't give out your email address. Use the dating site's internal messaging system.
• Phone number: Speaking over the phone can be a great way to decide if, where and when you want to meet someone. Just be careful about who you give a number to and what number you give them. Remember, once they have it you can't take it back.
• Meeting: Always meet in a busy, public place. And don't let anyone follow you to your car unless you've already decided you like and trust them.
• Back-up security: Leave a message with a friend including where and when you are meeting someone and give them the information you have to identify the person you are meeting. Then tell the person you're meeting that you've done this.
• Background Check: If you really want to know the truth about the person on the other end of your messages, you can do a background check here.

    If you follow all of the above your chances of meeting someone who makes you happy will be greatly enhanced. By sticking with the sites listed here you should have a lot of fun until you meet that one special "one."

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Good Luck & Happy Dating!